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Look Good Naked
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Dr. Del Millers
Yes, most of us satisfied our resolution urge on January 1st. How’s it going for you? Are you reaching your goals? Generate a sense of renewal and bright reassessment, anytime is an optimal time to check in. Your New Year's resolutions may make it past the end of January, because hey, this year's going to be different.
See, most of us don't have a clue about how to make a reasonable resolution, which is why we fail to sustain them. We set lofty goals to completely change our lives around, and then wonder why we never attain them. So now, instead of setting yourself up for failure, why not make this the last year you ever set a resolution to lose that same 10 pounds.
Make This the Year You LOOK GOOD NAKED!
If you're ready to look good naked while improving your athletic performance, read on, I'll show you how. Make this the year you begin to stand naked in front of your mirror and really like what you see.
2. Why is it important for you to achieve this goal? Why is it important to you to look good naked? Yes, everybody would like to look good naked, but why is it important to YOU? Your answer to this question will be one of the most important factors in your success or failure. When you get tired, frustrated and feel like quitting, as you will, if your answer is very superficial, chances are you will quit. However, if your answer stems from a deep yearning to make a change, because you're tired of being where you are and you want something different, this is the fuel you will need to re-energize your efforts.
Researchers at George Washington University found that people who have been successful in transforming their bodies all had an "emotional trigger" that helps to clarify their reasons for wanting to change their bodies in the first place. What's your big WHY?
3. Outline a plan of action of how you're going to attain your goal. Be specific. How many days per week will you exercise? What are you going to do for exercise? When will you do your weight training? What kind of weight training program do you need? How often will you weight train? What will you do for cardiovascular exercise? What kind of nutrition program will you need? How will you fit your nutrition program into your already busy schedule? These are important questions that must be answered before you begin your quest, if you are to succeed.
4. Identify, up front, what you will need to do when your plan starts to fall apart. What will you have to do to get back on track? If your work or family life suddenly becomes more chaotic and stressful than it already is, what will you have to do to stay on track?
5. What will you have to give up in order to get what you want? Make no mistake about it; you will have to give something up in order to get what you want. Sorry, but you can't eat whatever you want everyday and still look good naked. If you could, you would already look good naked, in which case, you chose your parents very well. You will have to give something up in order to free-up enough time to follow your new plan. Maybe you're going to watch less television or spend less time with the fellas or your girlfriends. Maybe you will have to get up a little bit earlier, or give up some of your present activities. Whatever it is, you need to decide and incorporate it into your plan.
If you follow the above plan and follow-through on your commitments to yourself (that is, do what you say you're going to do), by the time New Year’s Eve rolls around you won’t be thinking about setting yet another New Year's Resolution. You won’t need to. The "success habit" will have become an integral part of your goal setting process throughout every day of the year.
"And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful
than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin
The following excerpt from my newest book, Simply DELicious, will give you a very simple and workable plan for changing your eating habits in a way that will guarantee your success.
B. Keep a daily food and exercise journal. You want to be able to identify exactly what you're doing a month down the road. You don't want to be playing guessing games. If your progress slows, your journal will quickly identify areas in which you may be slacking off. You want to be honest with yourself.
C. Drink 10-12 glasses of water everyday!
D. Maintain your plan for six days out of the week and have one free day. On your free day, eat WHATEVER YOU WANT. Treat yourself! Remember, if you do something once a week, it's a treat, if you do it 2-3 times per week, it's a habit. Habits either take you closer to your goals, or they keep you right where you are.
E. Ask yourself regularly, "Is what I'm eating taking me closer to my goal?" If it does, continue eating it. If it doesn't, make a better choice.
F. Evaluate your progress monthly and reward yourself for your accomplishments. If it seems like nothing is happening, review your food and exercise log. Ask yourself, "on a scale of 1-10, how committed am I to my plan?"
Remember that transformation is a process! And you cannot transform your body without also transforming your life! So if the plan that I've outlined for you above is too lofty a goal for you, then why not set yourself up to succeed by focusing on one new change at a time.
Change #2: Choose another meal and focus on it everyday for one week. It is important to note that at the end of each week you're not discontinuing what you've been focusing on, you're just adding a new habit.
Cumulatively, at the end of your first month, you're eating four healthy nutritious meals everyday. Continue adding small weekly changes and at the end of one year your life will have been given an upgrade! Remember what I said earlier, big transformation comes about by making small changes consistently over time.
As you embark upon your new journey, here's something to keep in mind. If you start with the mindset that success is eminent and failure is not an option, you can never fail. Happy New Life!
Dr. Del holds a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology, a degree he earned by demonstrating self-mastery, and a Ph.D. in Nutritional Sciences. He is a syndicated nutrition columnist in the US and Australia, the author of four books, a professional dancer, a competitive drug-free bodybuilder, as well as a master instructor of Kung Fu and Tai Chi Chuan. A sought after professional speaker and corporate consultant, Dr. Del has inspired thousands around the world to be the best they've ever been... physically, mentally and spiritually. He is truly a pioneer, combining the fields of Fitness and Transformation.
Dr. Del Millers, PhD is at the forefront of the Fitness and Transformation movement, helping people reshape their personal vision of what's possible -- to create unstoppable possibilities. 
A master Instructor in the Chinese arts of Kung Fu & Tai Chi Chuan & a drug free competitive body builder, Dr. Del is the author of 4 books, several DVD series and speaks at conferences and retreats across the United States. http://www.delmillers.com & Del Millers FREE eBook + Video Series!
See, most of us don't have a clue about how to make a reasonable resolution, which is why we fail to sustain them. We set lofty goals to completely change our lives around, and then wonder why we never attain them. So now, instead of setting yourself up for failure, why not make this the last year you ever set a resolution to lose that same 10 pounds.
Make This the Year You LOOK GOOD NAKED!
If you're ready to look good naked while improving your athletic performance, read on, I'll show you how. Make this the year you begin to stand naked in front of your mirror and really like what you see.
"Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now."
Geothe
The Success Habit
One of my most popular motivational presentations to companies and organizations is a talk I call, Creating Unstoppable Possibilities, in which I outline a very simple approach to attaining any goal. Here are the first five steps in that process. You might find them useful on your quest to change your body:Developing the Success Habit
1. Decide very clearly what it is you want (a specific and realistic goal). Remember, for it to be a goal you must also have a deadline by which to attain it; otherwise, it's just a wish.Researchers at George Washington University found that people who have been successful in transforming their bodies all had an "emotional trigger" that helps to clarify their reasons for wanting to change their bodies in the first place. What's your big WHY?
4. Identify, up front, what you will need to do when your plan starts to fall apart. What will you have to do to get back on track? If your work or family life suddenly becomes more chaotic and stressful than it already is, what will you have to do to stay on track?
5. What will you have to give up in order to get what you want? Make no mistake about it; you will have to give something up in order to get what you want. Sorry, but you can't eat whatever you want everyday and still look good naked. If you could, you would already look good naked, in which case, you chose your parents very well. You will have to give something up in order to free-up enough time to follow your new plan. Maybe you're going to watch less television or spend less time with the fellas or your girlfriends. Maybe you will have to get up a little bit earlier, or give up some of your present activities. Whatever it is, you need to decide and incorporate it into your plan.
If you follow the above plan and follow-through on your commitments to yourself (that is, do what you say you're going to do), by the time New Year’s Eve rolls around you won’t be thinking about setting yet another New Year's Resolution. You won’t need to. The "success habit" will have become an integral part of your goal setting process throughout every day of the year.
than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin
The following excerpt from my newest book, Simply DELicious, will give you a very simple and workable plan for changing your eating habits in a way that will guarantee your success.
Your Nutrition Plan
A. Your nutrition plan should consist of 4-6 regular meals each day, every 3-4 hours. Notice I did say "meals" not "snacks." Get in the habit of eating balanced meals, with a serving of protein the size of your palm and a serving of complex carbohydrates the size of your fist; include a cup of vegetables with at least two of your meals.B. Keep a daily food and exercise journal. You want to be able to identify exactly what you're doing a month down the road. You don't want to be playing guessing games. If your progress slows, your journal will quickly identify areas in which you may be slacking off. You want to be honest with yourself.
C. Drink 10-12 glasses of water everyday!
D. Maintain your plan for six days out of the week and have one free day. On your free day, eat WHATEVER YOU WANT. Treat yourself! Remember, if you do something once a week, it's a treat, if you do it 2-3 times per week, it's a habit. Habits either take you closer to your goals, or they keep you right where you are.
E. Ask yourself regularly, "Is what I'm eating taking me closer to my goal?" If it does, continue eating it. If it doesn't, make a better choice.
F. Evaluate your progress monthly and reward yourself for your accomplishments. If it seems like nothing is happening, review your food and exercise log. Ask yourself, "on a scale of 1-10, how committed am I to my plan?"
Here's What It Looks Like
Change #1: Pick one meal, any meal, and focus on making it the most healthy and nutritious meal of your day -- according to my nutrition guidelines and recipes in the latter part of the book. Make it the same meal everyday for one week. My recommendation is to choose the meal that is the most challenging for you. If you usually skip breakfast, choose breakfast. Do you usually run to a fast food restaurant for lunch? If so, choose lunch. If all your meals are equally as challenging, just choose one.Change #2: Choose another meal and focus on it everyday for one week. It is important to note that at the end of each week you're not discontinuing what you've been focusing on, you're just adding a new habit.
Cumulatively, at the end of your first month, you're eating four healthy nutritious meals everyday. Continue adding small weekly changes and at the end of one year your life will have been given an upgrade! Remember what I said earlier, big transformation comes about by making small changes consistently over time.
Eating for Athletic Performance While Trying to Change Your Body
Keep in mind that eating for peak athletic performance is very different from eating to change your body. To perform at your best in an athletic event, you will need to consume more complex carbohydrates than you would normally eat on a body transformation program. Therefore, on the days prior to your event, increase your consumption of complex carbohydrates by 25%- 50%. This depends on the intensity and duration of your activity. On the days you're not competing, follow the above nutrition plan.Dr. Del holds a Masters Degree in Spiritual Psychology, a degree he earned by demonstrating self-mastery, and a Ph.D. in Nutritional Sciences. He is a syndicated nutrition columnist in the US and Australia, the author of four books, a professional dancer, a competitive drug-free bodybuilder, as well as a master instructor of Kung Fu and Tai Chi Chuan. A sought after professional speaker and corporate consultant, Dr. Del has inspired thousands around the world to be the best they've ever been... physically, mentally and spiritually. He is truly a pioneer, combining the fields of Fitness and Transformation.
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