Q. Jay Leno was talking about Sting’s four-hour orgasms one night and he attributed it to Tantra. Jay had a lot of fun with it and now it seems Tantric Sex is a new catch phrase to describe great sex. What is it exactly and how do I find it? My husband says let's try it. I'm hesitant. It seems like hype to me. We have great sex. Is it all it’s cracked up to be -The Yoga of sex? J.S.

If life is a dance and we’re learning the steps, Tantra is hot smoking Salsa.

Many see Tantra as the Yoga of Everything. Those who live their life as an art form have more freedom to express themselves in refreshing and powerful ways.

True Shivaic Tantra is part of an ancient spiritual practice, which elevated sexuality to a sublime meditative state. The sexual aspect was only part of a bigger experience. Though many gradients of quality seem to exist, any activity that brings more reverence and respect to the world is good. Experiencing our sexuality as sacred is the best antidote we know for things like pornography, perversion and sexual abuse. Western modes of Tantra help us focus our sexuality to connect to the Divine in each other and ourselves; to participate consciously in this dance takes living to a whole new level.

The fact that you have a good sex life already, and that your husband wants to explore this dimension with you could mean a quantum leap in your lovemaking and in your life.

Imagine seeing the Divine in each other and treating each other with that reverence, respect, honor and love. The quality of energy this brings into your life is sweet, blissful and immensely powerful. Some say love is only waiting for us to show up. Indeed, love is possible in every moment. Kalu Rimpoche, the Dalai Lama's teacher says there are three paths to enlightenment. The slowest but the surest is meditation. The second is music. The fastest? Sacred sexuality – Tantra.

TO TRY TODAY
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Make it a practice to see the inner as well as the outer beauty in every woman you see today. See the goddess in every woman. Watch for subtle cues such as smiles as you allow their being to touch you. Flush your predator consciousness down the toilet. Instead, see what happens when you allow yourself to be consumed by the beauty around you.